Love and Family

Love is the feeling that a person's happiness is very important to you  and the way you show this feeling in your behaviour towards them.
Family Is a group consisting of two parents and their parents living together as a unit. It is also a descendant of a common ancestor.
To have a family means to feel secure to have  someone whom you can count on, who shares your problem.
Love should be deep affection that grows from good knowledge of who the other person is.
Love is very sweet and interesting if it is 50 50.true love actually exist.
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>Love is very important in a family because that's what keeps the family together and creates a good relationship.
This is really very important because it is the backbone of a successful home.
We have families with true love as a foundation. This creates an avenue for opportunities, peace and unity, healthy minds etc.
Money or wealth is not the ultimate in a family, but love and understand in creates a vital roles.

What are the cause of unhappiness in a family?
We have lack of trust, support, respect or love.
We should try as much as possible to respect each other and there should be trust  between us in order to keep a good family.
In my family, we pray and practice love.
I have been married for 21 years now and love kept us moving.
Lack of Respect and understanding, Placing quest for riches and stuffs ahead of those in the family, Disloyalty, Selfishness, Laziness are also causes of unhappiness in a family.

True love is respect. When there is no respect, true love is absent. I feel you respect whom you love.
In the holy Bible in the book of 1 Cor 13 v 13 says you may be able to move mountains or have faith but the greatest in love.

Questions:

Is it right for a father or mother to have favourite child Or How can one manage a family even when you have favourite in the family?

Answer:

It is not good for parents to have favourite kids because it breed's division and jealousy and can cause hatred in their midst.
You also pretend and never make your favourite known.

Question:

Is it possible to love all Children equally without having a favorite, an example is Joseph in the bible?

Because a child's good behavior who is well obedient and hard-working can find favour before the parent and be loved more than other siblings.

Answer:

Very possible. I am an example. I don't have a best child. I play and talk to them equally and I keep everyone s secret for them. I am a confidant to them all.

You are correct but still bring the disobedient child closer too and he will become good someday.

Question:

Do all your children obey your preaching and take your advice? If not how do you handle, if any refuses to take your advice what do you do?

Answer:

No. They don't sometimes. I am a friendly mum. When they disobey, I get angry, talk to them, I sometimes quarrel with them and after a minutes we are settled again and they apologise. One important  rule I laid in my family, no malice after seconds.

A child that grows up with love from both parents develops full potentials in decision making, confidence, empathy, leadership etc....

Motherly role is important. Mothers makes her kids positively or negatively.

I decree on my kids immediately they are born,  brought four of them together when they were tender by joining there hands and I decree God's love and unity in there mist and I prayed that no man, no husband, no wives will scatter them in future. I think the love is keeping them. I did the prayers about 14 years ago.