Finding your niche in purpose
Niche: Any position of opportunity for which one is well-suited, such as a particular market in business.
Looking at this definition of niche, it means that we are looking for the area in which one is well suited in purpose. That is: finding a unique spot in purpose.
We will all agree with me that people being able to define their specific purpose on earth is like one of the most difficult things nowadays, the world where it is very difficult to stand out and be unique.
So I checked the dictionary and I found the closest meaning of niche that we can use for today's study which is:
Niche: Any position of opportunity for which one is well-suited, such as a particular market in business.
Looking at this definition of niche, it means that we are looking for the area in which one is well suited in purpose. That is: finding a unique spot in purpose.
We will all agree with me that people being able to define their specific purpose on earth is like one of the most difficult things nowadays, the world where it is very difficult to stand out and be unique.
...Everyone is just navigating through life the way it comes to them.
This is because only the creator actually knows fully one's purpose on earth and most times, we fail to connect with him, and also there are a lot of distractions and issues of life getting in the way.
READ MOREThe creator knew what he had in mind when he put all those part of you together to become one piece. Sincerely, every single soul has a unique purpose on earth, there is no two way about it.
Two or more people might have the same gifts, talents, skills, physique, Intelligence and so on.....
But no two people are required to use the combination of these instruments the same way.
Yes, they are all instruments to the fulfillment of one's unique purpose. Everything man has been blessed with are equipment to get things done.
I must say, that before one can grasp fully why on Earth he or she is here, he must look deep down and reconcile all that has been given unto him.
Where it all connects together and strikes something common is the spot we are looking for.
It all starts from knowing yourself fully.
What's your personality?
What's your role?
What are your physical, intellectual and spiritual gifts and talents?
What are your skills?
What are your interests?
What are your dislikes?
You must be able to answer these questions confidently first, then the journey to self discovery begins, it is this discovery that leads to actualization of purpose.
We all know that if the purpose of a thing is unknown, abuse is inevitable.
Therefore, you must be aware of why all that has been given unto you has been given, it is then you begin to learn how to execute them, where exactly you should use them, and what exactly you should use them for.
I must also say that there's a level of self discovery no mentor, no role model, no pastor, no Imam, no spiritual leader can reveal to you, it comes with a deep connection with your inner self.
What these people do majorly is to guide one through....
So many people are looking for straight answers no one can give them. While these answers lies within them.
The movement of your body parts are all results of the inner system put into place right? So is your Purpose niche, it should be an execution of the inner system put into place. This inner system is your design. I.e: the specific way you have been wired to fit into exactly what you were born for.
Purpose is about Serving others with the whole of our being. How then do we hope to achieve this when we don't even know what our being is all about.
At the end of the day, we end up confusing people and confusing ourselves.
We must make peace with ourselves, understand ourselves fully and discover who we really are, then begin to connect it with the world.
This way, our unique spot will remain ours, just like no two people have the same finger print, no two people have the same spot. Never be afraid to be you when you discover you. It is the real you that the world needs.
I will like to stop there, please any questions or contributions before I drop my action point for this session?
This is my action point: Take a personality and role test to understand the kind of person you we are, how you can manage it and how you can contribute your quota to the world according to your role.
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Thank you for your time.
COLLAPSEQuestion :
Talking about your unique purpose. Can you compete in purpose?
I love to network and partner like-minds doing great stuffs that are impacting lives, but some folks have the attitude of negativity that they think you want to outshine them or steal their vision or something.
I have had that experience with a highly successful lady who feels threatened by what I'm doing because it's in line with her vision and get offended with it.
Answer :
Wow!!! I love this question.
It's actually very rampant these days
Everyone seems to think you are in a competition with them......and I am like, Oga, cool down. We are all working towards the same goal.
I think there's no competition in purpose, rather it should be collaboration. Do you, do me and let's achieve purpose.
One is in the same line of purpose with another person does not mean both individuals don't still have their unique spots and roles to play
Take a look at the teeth. When you look at them together, they look exactly the same and seem to be doing the same thing, but the truth is each tooth has its own role to play. The canines can not do the work of the premolars, likewise the premolars can not do the work of the canines. They all work together to fulfill one purpose.
See.....purpose is huge, it is more than any one person that want to decide to carry it on their head, trust me, they can't survive it.
Relationships and collaborations is what helps purpose to be fulfilled, that way, each person role is fully highlighted.
The key is being secure!!! If one is insecure, these things will definitely happen. One needs confidence.